1. Accept that
you must be personally responsible for your own
behavior and that you need to give up behavior which
does not work well for you.
2. Commit
yourself to changing your unhealthy behaviors by
learning from your mistakes, and exploring why you
made these mistakes.
3. Commit to
being open about your thoughts and feelings and do
not keep secrets.
4. Commit
yourself to talking directly to staff and peers
about your thoughts and feelings rather than acting
out and maintaining.
5. Commit
yourself to being honest in all of your
relationships and to avoid lies and distortions.
This also means being honest with yourself.
6. Be willing
to follow community rules and limits even if you do
not agree with them.
7. Accept the
value of relationships with others so that learning
to develop and maintain close, trusting
relationships will be an important life goal.
8. Accept the
value of work, which means going to work, setting
goals for yourself, and striving toward honest
financial and personal independence.
9. Accept that
you can learn from your own experiences and the
experience of others if you are willing to take
advantage of these experiences as "opportunities of
growth."
10. Accept that
the treatment team is dedicated to helping you
achieve and maintain recovery from chemical
dependency and all that the ramifications that come
from that condition.
11. Accept that
the members of the treatment team are not God, and
can make human errors. Meanwhile, accept that most
of the time they are not wrong; and probably
know what they are talking about.
12. Keep in
mind HOW to obtain and maintain recovery is: